Dating Profile Photo Tips For Over 80s

A profile with a photo gets far more replies than one without, and you do not need to look like a film star. A bit of daylight and a willing helper are all it takes. Here are five easy tips.

1. Smile Please!

A natural smile is the best thing you can put in a photo. Think of something that makes you laugh, perhaps a famous Springbok win, or the grandchildren trying to explain what a selfie is, and let it show.

2. Find Some Good Light

Daylight is far kinder than a ceiling light. Sit in the shade on the stoep or by a window, away from the harsh midday sun. A second photo of you doing something you enjoy, on the bowling green, in the garden or with the dog, gives people something to ask about.

3. Frame It Well

Dating sites crop photos to fit, so keep your face near the centre with a little space around it. Ask your helper to hold the phone at your eye level and check the photo is sharp. A head and shoulders shot is best as your main picture.

4. Just You, Please

That photo from the family braai may be a favourite, but with twenty relatives in it nobody will know which one is you. Pick photos of you on your own, and keep pictures of a late spouse or former partner for the family album.

5. Keep It Current

Use photos from the last year or so. Your date will be looking for the person in the picture when you walk into the tea garden. Ask a son, daughter or grandchild to take a few snaps and pick your favourite two or three.