Frequently Asked Questions

Thinking about online dating in your eighties but not sure where to start? Here are the questions South Africans ask us most often.

• Am I too old for online dating?

  Not at all. Good company is welcome at any age. Whether you would like a little romance, a regular lunch companion or someone to chat with in the evenings, others here are looking for just the same.

• Is the site easy to use?

  Yes. It is designed to be straightforward, and if you get stuck our support team is happy to help. There is nothing wrong with asking a family member to sit with you the first time.

• Can I join for free?

  Yes. Joining is free, and you can set up your profile and look around at other members. To send messages and reply to everyone, you will need to upgrade to a paid membership.

• What do I get with a paid membership?

  Paid members can send and read messages freely and use the extra search options, which makes getting to know people much easier.

• How do I write a good profile?

  Write the way you would chat to someone new at a braai. Say where you live, what you enjoy and the kind of company you are hoping for. Our guide to writing a dating profile has plenty of tips.

• Can I use it on my phone or tablet?

  Yes. The site works on computers, tablets and smartphones, so you can check your messages from the stoep as easily as from the study.

• Who uses the site?

  Members are single men and women over 80 from all over South Africa, from the big cities to small Karoo towns. Many are widowed, some are divorced, and all would welcome a bit more company.

• How do I know people are genuine?

  Our team moderates the site and acts on reports from members. Read our guide to spotting dating scammers, never send money to anyone you meet online, and report any profile that worries you.

• How do I know if someone is right for me?

  Take your time. Read their profile, exchange a few messages and see if you enjoy the conversation. When you are both ready, a phone call and then a daytime cup of tea somewhere public is a lovely next step.

Singles Over 80 South Africa is here to help men and women over 80 find friendship, companionship and maybe a little romance. Join today and see who you might meet.